Comments for Functional Solutions for Living http://anthonylemme.com Integrative Trauma Release and Functional Nutrition Sun, 18 Mar 2012 14:22:20 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on When to Let the Voices in Your Head Speak by Tim Van Milligan http://anthonylemme.com/569/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak/comment-page-1/#comment-4086 Tim Van Milligan Sun, 18 Mar 2012 14:22:20 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-4086 Steve, I believe that "Being Authentic" means different things to people with different personality types. You think it means to be yourself. But that it is completely different to other people. See my youtube video about it at: http://youtu.be/8x2BMlNUb4A Tim Van Milligan http://customersecrets.com Steve, I believe that “Being Authentic” means different things to people with different personality types. You think it means to be yourself. But that it is completely different to other people. See my youtube video about it at: http://youtu.be/8x2BMlNUb4A

Tim Van Milligan
http://customersecrets.com

]]> Comment on Top Ten Myths of Popular Psychology by The Self-Esteem Crutch http://anthonylemme.com/1921/top-ten-myths-of-popular-psychology/comment-page-1/#comment-4073 The Self-Esteem Crutch Fri, 06 Jan 2012 16:42:26 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=1921#comment-4073 Thanks Anthony for providing the evidence that proves my theory right about self-esteem. It has been used as a crutch for too long, and it really doesn't explain why people behave the way they do. Tim Van Milligan <a href="http://customersecrets.com/the-self-esteem-crutch/" title="What works when selling to the customer with low Self-Esteem?" rel="nofollow"> Thanks Anthony for providing the evidence that proves my theory right about self-esteem. It has been used as a crutch for too long, and it really doesn’t explain why people behave the way they do.

Tim Van Milligan

]]> Comment on Top Ten Myths of Popular Psychology by The Self Esteem Crutch | Personality Marketing http://anthonylemme.com/1921/top-ten-myths-of-popular-psychology/comment-page-1/#comment-4072 The Self Esteem Crutch | Personality Marketing Fri, 06 Jan 2012 16:38:29 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=1921#comment-4072 [...] Myth #3 in Top Ten Myths of Popular Psychology on Anthony Lemme’s web [...] [...] Myth #3 in Top Ten Myths of Popular Psychology on Anthony Lemme’s web [...]

]]> Comment on How Healthy Food Can Make You Sick and Crazy by How to sell more using persuasive selling skills http://anthonylemme.com/2485/how-healthy-food-can-make-you-sick-and-crazy/comment-page-1/#comment-4049 How to sell more using persuasive selling skills Sun, 13 Nov 2011 02:59:46 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2485#comment-4049 Very intersting that the food alergies can cause so many problems. Scott Sylvan Bell <a href="http://www.scottbellconsultant.com/howtosellmorelearnnegotiationsalesskillspart2/" rel="nofollow">How to sell</a> Now go implement! Very intersting that the food alergies can cause so many problems.

Scott Sylvan Bell
How to sell
Now go implement!

]]> Comment on Facebook and Some Thoughts on Trauma by Julie McClain http://anthonylemme.com/2430/facebookandsomethoughtsontrauma/comment-page-1/#comment-4045 Julie McClain Fri, 11 Nov 2011 00:32:54 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2430#comment-4045 My comments are a response to Lisa McClellan's story above. I don't think that genuinely happy people typically feel the need to make a point of how happy they are compared to other people whom they are busy judging as less than themselves in various ways. It is well documented and validated that frequently an important stage in sexual abuse or assault recovery is to emerge from the shame and own what one has been through by naming it. I honestly do not believe it is fair or wise for anyone else to presume to say when that part of the process has been fulfilled. Anthony's work is tremendously helpful in my experience and i am grateful to have the chance to work with him. My intent is to reach out to be kind to the people around me, whatever they may be identified with, whatever degree of help they may be ready for or not ready for, whether or not their way of coping with their trauma or talking about how others do or do not cope meets my standards for how to do that "right". No one elected me or any of us to be the arbiter of that standard for their life. I think its good to stay real about that when we talk about this stuff. Shalom My comments are a response to Lisa McClellan’s story above. I don’t think that genuinely happy people typically feel the need to make a point of how happy they are compared to other people whom they are busy judging as less than themselves in various ways. It is well documented and validated that frequently an important stage in sexual abuse or assault recovery is to emerge from the shame and own what one has been through by naming it. I honestly do not believe it is fair or wise for anyone else to presume to say when that part of the process has been fulfilled.

Anthony’s work is tremendously helpful in my experience and i am grateful to have the chance to work with him. My intent is to reach out to be kind to the people around me, whatever they may be identified with, whatever degree of help they may be ready for or not ready for, whether or not their way of coping with their trauma or talking about how others do or do not cope meets my standards for how to do that “right”. No one elected me or any of us to be the arbiter of that standard for their life. I think its good to stay real about that when we talk about this stuff. Shalom

]]> Comment on Facebook and Some Thoughts on Trauma by Lisa McLellan http://anthonylemme.com/2430/facebookandsomethoughtsontrauma/comment-page-1/#comment-4031 Lisa McLellan Tue, 27 Sep 2011 15:50:14 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2430#comment-4031 Ok, you got me at the study which found a connection between a childhood trauma and a 20 year less life expectancy. This is scary stuff. I remember reading one time about a woman having lunch with her friends and her friend was still so attached to being molested as a child. She attended groups weekly, and wrote papers about it and basically defined herself as an incest survivor. The woman herself was also an incest survivor but didn't define her life as such. She said how she was so much happier than her friend and her life was so much more positive. She got help and had moved on. It was very interesting. Lisa McLellan <a href="http://www.babysittingworld.com/babysittingservices.html" rel="nofollow">Babysitting Services, Nanny Services, and Nanny agencies</a> Ok, you got me at the study which found a connection between a childhood trauma and a 20 year less life expectancy. This is scary stuff.
I remember reading one time about a woman having lunch with her friends and her friend was still so attached to being molested as a child. She attended groups weekly, and wrote papers about it and basically defined herself as an incest survivor. The woman herself was also an incest survivor but didn’t define her life as such. She said how she was so much happier than her friend and her life was so much more positive. She got help and had moved on. It was very interesting.

Lisa McLellan
Babysitting Services, Nanny Services, and Nanny agencies

]]> Comment on How Healthy Food Can Make You Sick and Crazy by Midlife Dating Singles Events Orange County http://anthonylemme.com/2485/how-healthy-food-can-make-you-sick-and-crazy/comment-page-1/#comment-4022 Midlife Dating Singles Events Orange County Fri, 09 Sep 2011 19:42:37 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2485#comment-4022 Hi Anthony, Oh my goodness yes, while a food may be one of good healthy nutrients, like a healthy romantic relationship, if you are allergic to it, then of course it is not healthy for you! Happy Dating and Relationships, April Braswell <a href="http://aprilbraswell.com/blog/ocsingleseventsonlinedatingworkshopcostamesasept2011.htm" rel="nofollow">Midlife Dating Singles Workshop Orange County</a> Hi Anthony,

Oh my goodness yes, while a food may be one of good healthy nutrients, like a healthy romantic relationship, if you are allergic to it, then of course it is not healthy for you!

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell
Midlife Dating Singles Workshop Orange County

]]> Comment on How Healthy Food Can Make You Sick and Crazy by Trisha Chambers http://anthonylemme.com/2485/how-healthy-food-can-make-you-sick-and-crazy/comment-page-1/#comment-4018 Trisha Chambers Sun, 04 Sep 2011 12:34:01 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2485#comment-4018 Very interesting read. I find if I stay away from alcohol, wheat, and sugars that I feel so much better! Very interesting read. I find if I stay away from alcohol, wheat, and sugars that I feel so much better!

]]> Comment on Top Ten Myths of Popular Psychology by Lisa McLellan http://anthonylemme.com/1921/top-ten-myths-of-popular-psychology/comment-page-1/#comment-4016 Lisa McLellan Sun, 04 Sep 2011 00:18:09 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=1921#comment-4016 I didn't realize that it was just a myth that we only use 10% of our brains. Mine has felt full for years - I should've known it wasn't true. Lisa McLellan <a href="http://www.babysittingworld.com/babysittingservices.html" rel="nofollow">Babysitting Services, Nanny Services, and Nanny agencies</a> I didn’t realize that it was just a myth that we only use 10% of our brains. Mine has felt full for years – I should’ve known it wasn’t true.

Lisa McLellan
Babysitting Services, Nanny Services, and Nanny agencies

]]> Comment on Facebook and Some Thoughts on Trauma by How to Find Your Soul Mate http://anthonylemme.com/2430/facebookandsomethoughtsontrauma/comment-page-1/#comment-4010 How to Find Your Soul Mate Mon, 22 Aug 2011 18:58:18 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=2430#comment-4010 Hi Anthonyy, Your facebook posts about trauma and how people are attached to it and have vested interest in retaining that pattern make for a very help and understandable synthesis for your readers. The habit in the brain to perceive certain flags as trauma reminders ads to dis-ease creation as well as impedes people relationships, both in business and personal romantic relations. Happy Dating and Relationships, April Braswell <a href="http://aprilbraswell.com/blog/" rel="nofollow">How to Find Love Online</a> Hi Anthonyy,

Your facebook posts about trauma and how people are attached to it and have vested interest in retaining that pattern make for a very help and understandable synthesis for your readers. The habit in the brain to perceive certain flags as trauma reminders ads to dis-ease creation as well as impedes people relationships, both in business and personal romantic relations.

Happy Dating and Relationships,

April Braswell

How to Find Love Online

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