Comments on: When to Let the Voices in Your Head Speak http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm Radiant Health Through Education, Science and Tradition Fri, 20 Aug 2010 16:59:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Steve Chambers http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-790 Steve Chambers Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:33:23 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-790 I think many people confuse being authentic with being free to say mean things to people, but that isn;t really the case. Being authentic simply meens being yourself. Hopefully we're not all closet assholes. Steve Chambers, <a href="http://www.stevechambers.com" rel="nofollow">The Sales Expert</a> <a href="http://www.thesaleseagles.com" rel="nofollow">The Sales Eagle Solution - 6 months to dominate your market</a> I think many people confuse being authentic with being free to say mean things to people, but that isn;t really the case. Being authentic simply meens being yourself. Hopefully we’re not all closet assholes.

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]]> By: Lisa McLellan http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-777 Lisa McLellan Mon, 22 Jun 2009 18:09:35 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-777 I think I get what you mean. I am always pretty quiet and easy going, kind of a go-with-the-flow type of person. Every now and then, I do get to a breaking point when I feel I'm being taken advantage of and sometimes the "a-hole" comes out. I think it takes everyone by surprise because there are no questions asked when I'm in that mode. What I say goes! <a href="http://www.babysittingworld.com/babysittingservices.html" rel="nofollow">Lisa McLellan, Babysitting Services - Babysitters, Nannies, and Au-pairs</a> I think I get what you mean. I am always pretty quiet and easy going, kind of a go-with-the-flow type of person. Every now and then, I do get to a breaking point when I feel I’m being taken advantage of and sometimes the “a-hole” comes out. I think it takes everyone by surprise because there are no questions asked when I’m in that mode. What I say goes!

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]]> By: Newport Beach, Widow Support, Bereavement Counseling, Divorce Recovery, Grief Support, Orange County, Huntington Beach, Long Beach, Irvine http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-772 Newport Beach, Widow Support, Bereavement Counseling, Divorce Recovery, Grief Support, Orange County, Huntington Beach, Long Beach, Irvine Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:59:49 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-772 Hi Anthony, indeed being a Human Being, genuine and authentic, is part of what makes us great in life. I like how you added and clarified your earlier post least any of your readers take a misunderstanding. SOme communication in life is best done in person, and yet that ideal scenario is not always possible. Without being face to face, your readers might have missed your heart, your compassion, and your true intentions. Best regards, April Braswell <a href="http://www.aprilbraswell.com/BoomerDating.html" rel="nofollow">Single Boomer Dating Expert, Relationship Success Coach</a> <a href="http://www.GriefRecoverySeminar.com" rel="nofollow">Widow Support and Bereavement Counseling Outreach Workshop Orange County, Newport Beach, Huntington Beach, CA</a> <a href="http://www.PromoteYouOnline.com/" rel="nofollow">Newport Beach, Huntington Beach, Orange County, Website Marketing, Web Design, SEO, Social Media Marketing</a> Hi Anthony,

indeed being a Human Being, genuine and authentic, is part of what makes us great in life. I like how you added and clarified your earlier post least any of your readers take a misunderstanding. SOme communication in life is best done in person, and yet that ideal scenario is not always possible. Without being face to face, your readers might have missed your heart, your compassion, and your true intentions.

Best regards,

April Braswell

Single Boomer Dating Expert, Relationship Success Coach

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]]> By: Jody yaple http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-760 Jody yaple Sat, 20 Jun 2009 01:21:28 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-760 I have to agree with bob pn this one I have to agree with bob pn this one

]]> By: Pam Schulz http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-756 Pam Schulz Fri, 19 Jun 2009 03:34:52 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-756 Very thought-provoking stuff. Pam <a href="http://www.greatwealth.com/retirementinvesting" rel="nofollow">Invest in Your Future</a> Very thought-provoking stuff.

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]]> By: Cindy http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-755 Cindy Thu, 18 Jun 2009 02:38:26 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-755 I have another comment. I'm sorry. I like the idea of there being an unmet need. However, we all at times have unmet needs. It doesnt give us the right to tresspass on another person or their feelings. But as humans we certainly at times do this. I do feel very inline with the idea of when there is understanding there is compassion. And where there is compassion and understanding there is wisdom. Why do humans strive to attain the Spiritual side though? Could that be an unmet need deep in our souls then? I think it may be. Depending on how you were raised and which faith you subscribe to or not, many religions have given their teachings, theories and principles on this. The very reason we humans stive for the Spiritual. Let's discuss some of that. Or maybe that would be to deep. I have another comment. I’m sorry. I like the idea of there being an unmet need. However, we all at times have unmet needs. It doesnt give us the right to tresspass on another person or their feelings. But as humans we certainly at times do this.
I do feel very inline with the idea of when there is understanding there is compassion. And where there is compassion and understanding there is wisdom. Why do humans strive to attain the Spiritual side though? Could that be an unmet need deep in our souls then? I think it may be.
Depending on how you were raised and which faith you subscribe to or not, many religions have given their teachings, theories and principles on this. The very reason we humans stive for the Spiritual. Let’s discuss some of that. Or maybe that would be to deep.

]]> By: Cindy Nelson http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-754 Cindy Nelson Thu, 18 Jun 2009 02:30:27 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-754 Hi Anthony, Well I missed your original post, but I did like reading this one. I recently read the book The Shack. In some ways, it makes me think of what you are saying, in that many people feel when you look at God, you need to look at God from a religious perspective, and I guess depending on the individual and their background, people tend to have the impression that God will only accept us if we behave a certain way. Or if we live as He has guided us to live. The rules, follow the rules and you will see progess, or you will attain the goal. But what we fail to see in many ways, is that we are humans, created in the image of God. Or if there is a God, where did the image come from? We are humans and that is full circle round. All our goodness that we can at times show. At the same time we have the bad side, or emotional, aggravated, angry, irritated or sometimes even gluttoneious side that we sometimes can show to be. But it's all part of us. I think in some ways, when we are nuturing ourselves on all sides, good and bad, that is when we become more spiritual and that is when we can be ok with not saying something we know would hurt another, because it's just not that important to do that. You grow out of that bad stage and into a better stage. However, it all depends on what's going on around you. Your environment plays a big role in that. Hi Anthony,
Well I missed your original post, but I did like reading this one. I recently read the book The Shack. In some ways, it makes me think of what you are saying, in that many people feel when you look at God, you need to look at God from a religious perspective, and I guess depending on the individual and their background, people tend to have the impression that God will only accept us if we behave a certain way. Or if we live as He has guided us to live. The rules, follow the rules and you will see progess, or you will attain the goal.
But what we fail to see in many ways, is that we are humans, created in the image of God. Or if there is a God, where did the image come from? We are humans and that is full circle round. All our goodness that we can at times show. At the same time we have the bad side, or emotional, aggravated, angry, irritated or sometimes even gluttoneious side that we sometimes can show to be. But it’s all part of us. I think in some ways, when we are nuturing ourselves on all sides, good and bad, that is when we become more spiritual and that is when we can be ok with not saying something we know would hurt another, because it’s just not that important to do that. You grow out of that bad stage and into a better stage. However, it all depends on what’s going on around you. Your environment plays a big role in that.

]]> By: Anthony http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-753 Anthony Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:18:55 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-753 Hi Bob, Maybe it is me, but I think you are coming more from a New Age perspective. I guess you and I are back to square one on this one. I think there is a gross misunderstanding and that you are actually on the same page in a way. When you allow those aspects of yourself to have their say, they eventually transform into things like love, understanding, compassion. In Buddhism, the three jewels are wisdom, compassion and understanding. If you have cultivated any one of them deeply, you have all three of them. So if I get mad, and allow the thoughts and physical sensations that arise with it then I see it for what it really is...and unmet need. When I allow myself to see that, not intellectually but at at the heart level, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is compassion. When there is compassion and understanding, there is wisdom. When there is wisdom there is no problem, no anger as it was to begin with. There is that unmet need or negative emotional charge and we feed it, we nourish it and we hear its song. It and we are transformed. And when it surfaces again, we know what it is and we feed it, we show it love and we nurture it until it grows up, so to speak. It is just a little piece of our child self that has been neglected and we help it to mature. I am not really stating this how I want but I hope this helps. Maybe I will write a post on this. Hi Bob,
Maybe it is me, but I think you are coming more from a New Age perspective. I guess you and I are back to square one on this one. I think there is a gross misunderstanding and that you are actually on the same page in a way.

When you allow those aspects of yourself to have their say, they eventually transform into things like love, understanding, compassion. In Buddhism, the three jewels are wisdom, compassion and understanding. If you have cultivated any one of them deeply, you have all three of them.

So if I get mad, and allow the thoughts and physical sensations that arise with it then I see it for what it really is…and unmet need. When I allow myself to see that, not intellectually but at at the heart level, there is understanding. When there is understanding, there is compassion. When there is compassion and understanding, there is wisdom. When there is wisdom there is no problem, no anger as it was to begin with. There is that unmet need or negative emotional charge and we feed it, we nourish it and we hear its song. It and we are transformed. And when it surfaces again, we know what it is and we feed it, we show it love and we nurture it until it grows up, so to speak. It is just a little piece of our child self that has been neglected and we help it to mature.

I am not really stating this how I want but I hope this helps. Maybe I will write a post on this.

]]> By: Bob Kaufer http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-752 Bob Kaufer Wed, 17 Jun 2009 13:56:23 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-752 Anthony, I have to respectfully disagree. I think life as a human is training for beyond. This is a test. If we believe that things are wrong but continue to let them rear their ugly head then it is hypocritical. If we practice love, abundance and forgiveness and really mean it, we can make things like anger and hate go away. It is not that we are repressing them but extinguishing them. I am not perfect but the more I practice love to even people I use to hate, the less I want to be angry at anyone. It is a journey, in the beginning you may only be able to push these feelings down for a short time before they rise but then we go right back to work but to allow them to rise for fear of repression is ignoring our spiritual beliefs. Bob Kaufer <a href="http://robertkaufer.com/Health-and-Human-Performance-E-Course.html" rel="nofollow">Sign Up For My Free Neuro Performance and Health℠ E-Course</a> Anthony,

I have to respectfully disagree. I think life as a human is training for beyond. This is a test. If we believe that things are wrong but continue to let them rear their ugly head then it is hypocritical. If we practice love, abundance and forgiveness and really mean it, we can make things like anger and hate go away. It is not that we are repressing them but extinguishing them.

I am not perfect but the more I practice love to even people I use to hate, the less I want to be angry at anyone.

It is a journey, in the beginning you may only be able to push these feelings down for a short time before they rise but then we go right back to work but to allow them to rise for fear of repression is ignoring our spiritual beliefs.

Bob Kaufer

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]]> By: Don Shepherd http://anthonylemme.com/when-to-let-the-voices-in-your-head-speak.htm/comment-page-1#comment-751 Don Shepherd Wed, 17 Jun 2009 01:27:21 +0000 http://anthonylemme.com/?p=569#comment-751 Mt St.Helens blew because it couldn't vent enough and keep a balance. Now it is calm and peaceful but the volcano is once again building pressure. I spent a lot of years holding back the big stuff and hiding it until one year i blew up at everything. now i go inside myself and find my peace. I keep the good stuff and go down to my gym and beat the crap out of tha bad stuff. it is good to be human. Peace Don Shepherd <a href="http://www.donshepherd.me/fly-fish" rel="nofollow"> Central Oregon Camphiker</a> Mt St.Helens blew because it couldn’t vent enough and keep a balance. Now it is calm and peaceful but the volcano is once again building pressure. I spent a lot of years holding back the big stuff and hiding it until one year i blew up at everything. now i go inside myself and find my peace. I keep the good stuff and go down to my gym and beat the crap out of tha bad stuff. it is good to be human.

Peace

Don Shepherd

Central Oregon Camphiker

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